As a makeup artist, wearing makeup has always felt like second nature, just part of waking up and starting my day. Whether it’s a natural look or full glam, I once did it effortlessly without overthinking.

But time has a funny way of reshaping our relationship with the things we love. I used to wonder how people could ever say that wearing makeup was “too much”—until I caught myself feeling the same way. Even as a professional, I found myself only reaching for my kit when there was a special occasion, instead of simply enjoying the art of makeup every day.

The Shift: Makeup as More Than Glam

When I think about women I admire, the ones who are always put together, it’s clear that it’s not about vanity or “performing” for others. It’s about self-care, self-presentation, and choosing to move through the world polished and confident.

Makeup, for me, is part of that. It’s one of my islands of creativity (if you’ve seen Inside Out, you get the reference). It sparked my imagination and gave me a way to express myself. When I started to feel burnout toward it, I realized my “makeup island” had shut down. The big question was: Why did I fall out of love with makeup, and how could I get that love back?

Here are a few reasons I noticed along with my thoughts from a makeup artist’s perspective:

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1. Makeup, Women, and the Workplace

Over time, the pressure to always look good, dress well, and deal with society’s expectations of women can feel exhausting. Makeup becomes less fun and more like an obligation—or worse, like it’s for everyone else’s gaze rather than your own.

My Rebuttal: Block out the noise and return to your vision. Looking presentable should never feel like a burden but rather a commitment to yourself. Ask: What would the best version of me think about the person I am today? Taking pride in your look isn’t performing, it’s showing up for yourself.

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2. Makeup and the Attention It Brings

The better I got at makeup, the more attention it drew, sometimes unwanted. Compliments, stares, or even comments felt overwhelming. At one point, I tried to downplay myself by mixing “on” days and “off” days, but that only made me feel inconsistent.

My Rebuttal: Makeup will draw attention and that’s okay. It’s a reflection of your effort and talent. Instead of shrinking, lean into the beauty you’re creating. Don’t let others’ reactions to your shine dim your light.

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3. Makeup and “Not Having the Time”

With work-from-home becoming normal, it’s so easy to think, “Why bother?” And when you stop wearing makeup regularly, starting again can feel like pulling teeth.

My Rebuttal: Makeup doesn’t have to be a huge production. It should feel as natural as brushing your teeth, a small, daily investment in how you present yourself. Think of it not as wasted time, but as time spent nurturing the results you want to see.

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Makeup isn’t just about glam—it’s about creativity, self-expression, and empowerment. For me, it’s a way to reconnect with myself and show up in the world as my best version.

Now I’d love to hear from you:
-Do you ever feel like makeup has become “too much”?
-Which of these points resonated with you most: workplace expectations, unwanted attention, or lack of time?

Drop your thoughts in the comments below, I’d love to start a conversation with you! – And if you’re ready to reignite your love for makeup and learn how to make it effortless, let’s work together!
✨ Book a consultation with me today and let’s create a look that makes you fall in love with makeup all over again.